Wedding Day

The National Shrine of Our Lady of Czestochowa

Nuptial Mass

Elstowe Manor at Elkins Estate

Welcome Cocktails

Reception

Bon Voyage Brunch

Our Wedding

On March 24, 2023, Luke stumbled into a bar that would indefinitely seal his fate.Sandra strolled into the same bar to share her heavenly singing voice for Friday Night Karaoke Donna’s Bar.(Best of Philly Karaoke 2015)Luke being Luke, made small talk with strangers, who mysteriously discovered that midnight was the start of Luke’s 32nd birthday. These newly acquired “friends” did not know that he is a type 1 diabetic. The owner of the bar, Sophie, appeared like an angel with a birthday cake for Luke.Sandra followed the sugary goodness, which lead her right to Luke.After he politely refused the cake, Sandra seized the moment to satisfy her rather large, sweet tooth. Although he could not enjoy the cake, Luke captured the best possible birthday present, a chat with Sandra. 5 Months Later…. Luke &amp; Sandra would finally cross paths again in all places, Wildwood, NJ.After both experiencing months of romantic disasters in the “dating &amp; relationship” sphere, this chance encounter would lead to a conversation between these two soulmates, that has yet to finish. After securing her father’s blessing, and with family by his side, Luke proposed to Sandra on the particular beach Sandra &amp; her family had been going too forever.Coolidge Ave.&nbsp;Margate, NJ.As Sandra came over the dunes with her mother, sister, &amp; goddaughter, she saw Luke holding a neon sign saying “Will You Marry Me” in one hand and a ring box in the other. Anthony (Sandra’s brother in law) and Frank (Luke’s Dad) had the difficult task of keeping upright the pvc built frame holding the backdrop of Disney’s Cinderella Castle during this windy beach “picnic”. Sandra threw down her purse and ran towards Luke to read the sign and take in this magical moment. Neither one could utter any words. The tears began to flow as he put the ring on her finger. The kisses, hugs, champagne, and incessant questions from Sandra’s mother asking if she said “Yes” capped off a perfect Beach/Disney proposal.

So This is Love....

Our Story

Photos

Jacqueline Phillips

Robert Landay

Maria Dylag

Maciej Mazur

Amanda Petrellis

Anthony Phillips

Rosalia Marie Phillips

Lochlan Lyle

Emma Stasky

Wedding Party

Please Note: Elkins Estate is closed on Mondays and Tuesdays Guests, kindly follow this procedure to book accommodation: 1- E-mail&nbsp;<a href="mailto:stay@theelkinsestate.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">stay@theelkinsestate.com</a>&nbsp;requesting accommodations for the TOMASZEWSKI-STASKY Wedding. 2- Elkins will send a list of available accommodation. 3- Guests will respond to Elkins with which accommodation they would like to reserve. 3- Elkins will reply with the link to book the accommodation requested.(Note: links are only good for 48 hours) 4- Once the payment is processed, confirmation will be sent to the guest within 72 hours. Please Note: Elkins Estate is closed on Mondays and Tuesdays Saturday, June 14, 2025Hotel Check-In- 12:00 PM Sunday, June 15, 2025Hotel Check-Out- 11:00 AM

Overnight Accommodations

Elkins Estate Wedding & Event Venue

Travel

Things to Do

Registry

What is the dress code?

We will be hosting a black tie affair. Time for the long gowns &amp; black tuxedos!

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What Not To Wear

Please do not wear any color that is traditionally reserved for the Bride.(white, ivory, cream, etc.)

Will I be allowed a plus-one?

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.

what about the children?

Take the night off and leave the little ones at home! Get ready for the best adults-only wedding you'll ever go to!!

will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

Our Nuptial Mass will take place&nbsp;indoors in The National Shrine of Our Lady of Czestochowa.&nbsp;&nbsp;Our Reception will also take place indoors at Elkins Estate. Several covered veranda and over forty acres of outdoor space&nbsp;are waiting to be enjoyed on a lovely summers night.&nbsp;&nbsp;

Is there parking?

The National Shrine of Our Lady of Czestochowa boasts a massive parking area directly in front of the main Shrine entrance.&nbsp;Complimentary Valet services will greet our guests at Elkins Estate.&nbsp;

Sandra & Luke

Sandra & Luke

Registry